TURN your LIFE AROUND πŸ’πŸŒπŸŒˆ and build Solid SELF VALUE & CONFIDENCE

 TURN your LIFE AROUND πŸ’πŸŒπŸŒˆ and 

build Solid SELF VALUE & CONFIDENCE πŸ‘‡


A Post for selected Audience!!!πŸ”₯


Do you remember how you were brought up?😊

When did you get acknowledgment and attention?πŸ₯°


          (Self VALUE part 1.—What is it? And    

           what is it not?)


πŸ’ŽPerhaps after one of these:

- were a cute baby and kid

- Stood up and walked early

- Spoke  “mom” the first time


- Got A for your exam

- Graduated on the top of your class

- Won at a sport event 

- Excelled in a competition 


- Started school early as you were so smart as a kid

- Listened to parents and chose their choice of carrier or and spouse


- You went in the business with your family even though you didn’t want it


- * did something bad so at least you got scolding or beating as a form of attention- otherwise you were invisible 


πŸ‘‰πŸ»Then you learnt to value yourself by doing something and achieving something- * even causing harm to others as an achievement 


❗️No wonder that your priorities in life become about achievement..


πŸ’―This is why self value was identified with Selfishness :


   - you use other people for your own good 

- Get attention and adoration


- Pressure others ti get cravings fulfilled 


- Feel powerful by making others serve you 


- achieve and win


- Counting what you give as $


- Your power to be right and controll others


πŸ‘‰πŸ»This results in measuring your value by:


- Your knowledge and expertise


- The money you have


- The materialstic stuff you have 


- The power and status you are in


- Feeling entitled as you have more control - manipulation 

❗️

These are not Self value!


You were conditioned by your family and society/ culture for this destorted view on self value.πŸ”₯


🌟✨⚡️πŸ’₯⭐️Because 

you never heard anybody to talk about that 


-πŸ«€your life is important 


-πŸ™your life is valued 


πŸ‘‰πŸ»no one ever valued you just because you are alive.


🌟WHAT is Self VALUE ?

is the degree to which one is GRATEFUL honors, respects and values one’s life.✅

SPECIFICALLY:


✅ valuing own life as the single most valuable gift 🎁 


✅ valuing each breath as the continuing reminder of that gift - LIFE🌱


✅ realizing and living by the belief that Your Human LIFE is given - granted by the highest LOVE of God, The Universe - because you have done so many good things in your previous lives that you deserved to be born as a human. The only form of existence which is possible to raise in consciousness 

✅ realizing that being born as a human and not other form of beings - is  rare as one in a million!


✅ realizing that since you are Alive — your life came by LOVE - so you are made OF LOVE and MADE TO love ❤️ 


✅ realizing your responsibility to improve the conditioned quality of your mind, - by cleaning your emotional imprints  —through practicing awareness and objective observation 

-/ so this InNHERENT LOVE as inner joy flows in you irrespective to outside conditions.


✅ you are given the HIGHEST and single MOST VALUABLE opportunity in this life - with your life - to contribute to the further raising of consciousness.. furthermore ti raise of vibration of the world and its inhabitants.

❤️πŸŒˆπŸ™πŸŒŽ


BUILDING this healthy self value - you get solid healthy self CONFIDENCE 


..to be continued- tomorrow 

❤️πŸ™❤️


Dr Zsu


Ps: as you see i was conditioned to achieve and win for self value— i m so so grateful to out grew that

And Live my Life ALIVE peacefully

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