From Unrequited love to Soulmate relationship

 From Unrequited love to Soulmate relationship 


So you absolutely had enough:


❌Being in love with someone and your love is not returned 


❌ believing that his need for you makes you valuable and lovable 


❌ being needed = being loved and based


❌ hoping that he will commit to you if you give more


❌ compensating  for his weakness to close unserving phase of his life


❌ Being stronger to take on more load from him


❌ being at his back and call/


BECAUSE it is Clear to you 

👉🏻your relationship is completely wrong-He is in relationship even in a marriage which the other person will never leave.


👉🏻They are just using you to buy time and make their marriage livable


👉🏻You are the compensation and you believe that by you giving this service to the other person you are greatly valued.

You make the other person’s life tolerable and livable that is your only service.


🙏You clearly know the other person will not commit to you BUT  you keep ignoring the fact.


🙏🌺Because of the few Small things he does which makes you a little happier— because they paid attention to you.. 


👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻you use this to delete and cancel your original argument- that they are wrong for you.

So you keep hanging on that thread.. and allow him to use you…

Knowing that as long as you can give you are good and if you can’t give you are thrown away.


The BITTER TRUTH is the point of your awakening!!🙏🌟🌟🌟😍🧚‍♀️💃❤️


My dear Lady,


You are ready to:


✅ Clean out your emotional wounds that are attracting in such a relationship


✅ to find your self-worth and self value 


✅ being first to yourself 


✅to respect yourself and your life, to say no to all unethical And Say yes to lifelong commitment to grow


✅ to develop the integrity patience gentleness which attracts in a real gentleman in your life


✅ To live in emotional independence and be responsible for your own joy and happiness even if you live it alone now


If you are ready- you have a great opportunity enrolling in the Alive program and reach these goals next year! 


Because you deserved to be 

🥰adored and loved 

👩‍❤️‍👨and committed to lifelong 

💃intimate,

❤️❤️✅mutually emotionally physically and mentally exclusive soulmate relationship


I m sending the necessary HOPE with this message ❤️


Dr. Zsu

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