“I want to belong to you”

 “I BELONG to You..

You BELONG to ME”

Aren’t we all looking for this feeling of belonging more than any food or drink?




It seems there is an innate search after birth for this someone who we feel we belong to.


This search will make us go through many heart aches…

It makes us meet the wrong guy, fall in love with the person

Who is openly carrying their childhood traumas.


And then the pattern repeats one after the other..


Let’s understand why:


-your emotional wounds from childhood- created the fear of abandonment.

This fear is subconsciously looking for someone who will never leave you. Who we we will belong to. Who you will belong to you.

This abandonment emotional wound is looking for the abandonment emotional wound in the other person.


Because your emotional vibrations attracts the same.

  

Awakening Friday dear Friends!🙏⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


If you remain unconscious about this process the following happens:


Not realizing that the emotional wound and it’s protective behavior is actively defining your thoughts, words and actions:

  • it will make you become dependent emotionally and physically .. you depend on someone else to feel loved, feel important and valuable 
  • You join certain groups which becomes your lifeline (addictions too)
  • You will often feel unsupported by your ideas, business, your choices  In your relationship 
  • You will give up your own life, ideas and even your health - making huge sacrafises for the other person because you are so afraid they leave you. You take on massive amounts of work- which you will slowly resent.
  • If you don’t feel this importance and love from the other person because they are going through a difficulty, you will leave the relationship first.
  • It’s very possible that your partner will be the one who leaves first when you hit a difficult phase in life…or if your partner’s level of need for love is greater that you can give.
  • It is possible that you are the one who provoked him to leave because your neediness escalated as you got closer to each other -/ and pushed him/ her to leave
  • You feel abandond and… Lonely again

However, the good news today..



You are not lonely… you have a false understading about belonging.


Your emotional wounds are doing this in you! They are not you!!


Even though we intellectualize about unity.. oneness with the Universe,

Hence we feel a stranger in our own body, mind ..

Your heart becomes numb..


You are terrified to look within and get to know ourselves fearing who you might find there.


This is the reason you don’t know who you really are and why are you here for..hence suffering through life.


This fear blocks you to feel whole within- feel that you are one with the universe — YOU BELONG to the UNIVERSE and therefor NEVER CAN BE ALONE.


Did you have a big ahaaaa after reading this and ready to transform these unserving emotional wounds so you finally calm down,

Have deep inner peace

Become the infinite source ABUNDANCE

And create consciously all you need 


Yes, you can…


By joining the Alive program you will experience all the beauty and love who you are.. your life will start taking turns the way you never imagined.

The love in you shifts your view about your life and world.. including your relationships at home, at work and with friends.



My message is open for you.


With lots of love,

❤️

Dr. Zsu

Drzsu@drzsu.com

Fb/fajcsak or drzsucom

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