How do you define a “ beautiful” woman?

 Dear Friends!


I am happy to see so many man commenting on the 

Question of the week๐Ÿ™❤️ “How do you define a beautiful woman”


and can see “beauty” from a deeper aspect. We need guys talking a lot more about this for relationships and generation to change.


Thank you๐Ÿ™❤️


Here is my view on this.


The most beautiful woman is the one who shines from the inside, accepts herself and is grateful for every single cell of her body -as it is. 


Who is at peace inside with herself.. 


Dear Girls,


It took many years to unlearn - unlearn to define my self worth and value by what I do. How helpful I m. How much better do I know things than others..✅


It took time.

It took the appropriate guidance from my mentor

Diligent practice

Patience and calm

Awareness & objectivity on allowing my emotional imprints to fade out.

Doing ecaxtly what my fears said don’t..

๐Ÿ™๐ŸŽˆ❤️


 Your beauty comes from the fact that you accept and are grateful to each and every cell of you.  

With this you stop your inner battles.


You cannot achieve this with any make-up because this beauty is felt on you and shines through everything and everyone.  

When you achieve this state  others want to be with you.. ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ because they feel accepted. They feel no threat from you. They feel your peace and calm, which is the foundation to feel “home” with someone.

๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ


 Because the “beautiful” as such is a transient thing -/conditioned by society and dictated by trends and fashion. 

Most of you use these trends to degrade yourself by comparing yourself to anyone who wants to meet these commercial definitions.


 What happened -/when you decided to associate your beauty with the products of the beauty industry and chose wear them?


 The cosmetic and beauty ads are targeted at you who is single, has no real relationships around you. They are targeted to make you believe that they give you power and value.

They make you believe that by applying these make up items on the daily bases, you care and pamper yourself..


These are

Big fat lies to keep you buying..✅


 And this is becoming more common in the schools. Parents are busy making money so that they can provide their children with more, better and more beautiful than what they got.  


And as I see it, during this process, children get lost in the glitter of advertisements and illusions.


 Because how is it possible that a twelve-year-old girl is already making videos about - “makeup for girls 10- to 16-year-old girls which can be worn at school?”


Shocking.


 While we're at it, let's talk about what is beautiful and beautiful.


According to the Universal Basic Law, everything that is born will die once it is born and everything is subject to aging.  


So, if you discriminate that something is beautiful, then its opposite, not beautiful, or ugly, also exists for your mind.  


Your suffering begins with these reactions.  If you haven't seen my videos on the School of emotions - take a look on my youtube -/ you can to understand this impermanece along with the mind selections better.


 In my opinion, the love that flows inside you radiates outwards, ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️๐ŸŒผ✨❤️which is a beautiful for everyone, 

because you no longer need to make such discriminations and characterizations with your mind.


Here are the steps leading to this inner beauty:๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒท❤️๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒผ⭐️


 ๐ŸŒบ1. When you accept yourself and are grateful for your life, will build the foundation: it will make you calm, relaxed, at ease. It will inctease your approachability, because no one has to be afraid of you.  

You don't have to conform to anyone.  


Living alone or in a relationship —you can learn to live in perfect inner joy, because you have meaningful goals to work towards. The meaning of your life is not solely your partner, or spouse.


 ๐ŸŒท2. When you are confident, seeing the truth in yourself and others, no one can throw you off balance.


 ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ™3. When you stand with compassion and willingness to help others who are going through difficulties.  You can give emotional support and dare to tell the truth in a kind way.

  

๐ŸŒŸ4. When you are guided by good-will and you are able to rejoice in the happiness and success of others, it really makes your eyes shine.


 ๐Ÿ’ซ5. When you can walk away from mean, angry, hateful, people in peace and still wish them well.๐Ÿ™


 ๐Ÿฅฐ6. When peace and tranquility can be seen in your every move and you can patiently listen to others.


 ๐Ÿฅณ7. When you see through the provocative manipulation of the other exploiter and you can politely say no to him.


 Dear fathers, ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ™❤️


If i may add:

It would be your task to develop these in your little girl.. Showing an example that you can treat the little girl's mother in the same way.  

๐Ÿฅฐ✅❤️๐Ÿ™⭐️๐Ÿค—


However, this will be very difficult if you had a troubled relationship with your mother as a child and this is still not resolved in you.


 (More on the mother-son and father-son relationship later) I write about this in detail in my book - The Secrets of Happiness locked in Fears.  Link in the first comment


 Then


 Dear ladies,

 Every single wrinkle around the eyes shows the experience of your life and the fact that you turned  all of them into smiles.๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜˜


 If a man doesn't see this in you and only wants to use you to show off, ๐Ÿ˜Ž

the days of your relationship is counted …๐Ÿ™❤️๐Ÿค—


Dear Guys,

You will age too.. 


Lots of love

๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜❤️

Zsuzsanna Fajcsak

Who will show you your real beauty so you attract in your soulmate

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