How do you get others to value you?

Happy Monday and blessings-full of week dear Friends!!🌺🌈🙏

The full moon is going... Hopefully, it shined on your brilliance...  and you received the well-deserved acknowledgment. 💥🎊🎉

Didn't this happen?🥸

This is for you then... --worth reading it all the way..

HOW DO YOU GET OTHERS TO VALUE YOU AND SEE YOUR WORTH?🎁🌟

How do you expect others to appreciate and see your value when you only see the bad and the worthless in yourself?

Did you know?

A person living from his conditioned mind sees in you what you deeply believe about yourself. Accept this. 

Understand what happens:

When you are in an upsetting situation, your deep-seated negative beliefs --that have been conditioned in you -- will be awakened from outside. 

So stop fighting against these people. And moreover, stop torturing yourself about their opinion.

They don't see your sacrifices. They only see that you are weak to stand up for your right, you can't say no to anything, and they can take advantage of you.

If by chance you meet a conscious person, who can truly see your worth, you stand in shame and disbelief. Why?

Because you do not believe what he says about you. You don’t believe that are a good person who gives him/herself up for the other person. You probably say: I'm stupid and weak and that's why everyone takes advantage of me. Yes.. now the truth surfaced up.. do you see what you believe about yourself? And why do they take you for a fool?

Let us take this further: 

You expect others to see in you what you don’t dare see in yourself!!

But if they see it in you, you immediately reject it – so you can be right!

You don't dare to see the good in yourself, because no one has ever told you that you have something good in you. That's why you're afraid to look into yourself.

You are afraid to see just how much darkness will you find there. Because growing up with so many demeaning critics, how could “your kind of person” deserve to be valuable… 

This is how I used to live too..

Living with this self-created nightmare and fear feels very bad. I call this living likely in hell. This completely takes away your zest for life and your motivation to do something new and dare to enjoy what you have. Because you feel like you have nothing because you are worthless.

Let's stop here for a moment.

💥🌟🎈I know you don't like to read all this. Because it doesn't make you feel good to realize the truth, that you are your enemy. The truth is, this was my exact intention to make you feel. I know that I won't be your favorite at this point. 

Guess what?  I don't want you to like me 🥸because my writing can make you feel good for 5 minutes. ✅

My intention is to help your growth! And that point comes only when I push you to the limits of your comfort zone. 🎊🎉🎁🌳

Only then can I show you something, so you can experience the strength and ability inherent in you. With this, I can help you to become a person who no one can play with and take advantage of. 🌈✅

Development takes place outside your comfort zone. That is the point when you dare to face the truth. As it is happening now.

I hope you feel bad enough to reach out for help.

Because there is a way out of here.✅

Just as I came out of living my life in a nightmare, so can you. My 25 years of international professional and personal experience helped me develop a special program that I have been teaching for 14 years. This program is called ALIVE: Live your life ALIVE program. ❤️

As part of this program, you will be working with me personally. We manage your deep-seated beliefs and rewrite them into empowering life instructions, life skills, tools, strength, and the ability to create a meaningful, peaceful, love-filled, happy life. You will have all the tools to create and achieve your new lifespan.

I have helped many thousands of people around the world, 

              -who learned to manage their emotions 

              -who leads their lives independently, 

              -Who solves problems easily while considering all 

              - who found their value and their life calling. 

              - Who no longer have to wait for others to see their value, 

              -Who lives a love-filled, ethical, and moral life in true abundance

Not sure if you want to find these in yourself. 

😍

I can only wish you all the best on your journey. You are the one who will have to face yourself in the mirror every day with this decision. You have to live in the battle of your inner conflicts where you live an illusionary life, pushing deeper and deeper down your beliefs about yourself: that you and life are worthless.

Have you realized it?

If you are not willing to value your life, how do you expect others to value you and your life?

Can you see now!! People see you only as worthless as you believe this about yourself. 

I'll say it a little differently so you can understand better:

Others will see you by your behavior. They will personalize you and label you by your behavior. 

They will also favor you and like you or value you if you do for them what they value. ✅

This is the greatest illusion one can create about determining self-value. 💥

If you continue living with these illusions, whole nine yards of negative behaviors will follow. These are your compensations for living in this great lie. 

This lie creates: 🤬

              your expectations, demands, blaming, complaining, judging, anger, hating, and being a victim. 

Wake up!!! You expect someone to value you for your efforts while on the other hand, you have to yell out of anger or give the silent treatment, use punishing blaming, destructive judgments, ill wills, and hatred while manipulating others to believe you are a victim? 😩

Because if you think that doing something you can’t say no to, will earn you their love and appreciation? Is a pure illusion.

              

Don't you think that others don't value you because you don't value yourself and your life? 😎

 - Because you can't stand up for yourself and the truth inside you?

 - Because you don’t respect yourself to walk away head high from something unethical? 

- Because you can't formulate the words to tell them you had enough being used and speak up for what you want. Do all that peacefully.

Do you know what the foundation of others valuing you? 

 

It starts with appreciating each breath you take.🥰🙏❤️

Who dares to try this out? Say Thank you for each breath -- and do this for minutes.

If you do give a chance to this exercise, will experience a miracle...you will have an experience of the liberating power of the truth.

No matter how stupid you think this article is, I know I planted a little seed in you.

At last:🏄

No matter where you look for the solution to your life problems, it will not come from outside. The solution is always inside you.✅😍🧘‍♀️

No matter what business management course you take to help your business develop. Without clearing your mind and evaluating yourself, it will just be money thrown out the window. 

I am telling you!! Your life and your business won't work without cleaning your mind.👇❤️

I know you are afraid of all these! One thing is for sure, you won't die from it. Your new life begins with the death of your old one.

If not, you will remain exposed to the opinions of others, because they will value in you what they value according to their ignorant value system.

A good start to look into yourself, answering these:

What do you value in others? 

Do you appreciate these in yourself too?

❤️🌺🙏

With lots of love - Dr. Zsu

Zsuzsanna Fajcsak

Whose hands you can feel safe while your mind is being cleaned, until you find your value and life calling, and you step onto self-reliant life, the true internally guided path.