HOW BIG OF A LIE do you feel you, you LIVE IN?

 How many things do you have to hide in your life?

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Attention please:

This little reading is not for everyone. If you are not ready to look at the truth, please skip reading. 

 

However, if I made you curious, I am sure you will find something valuable here. Accept my love through this writing:

 

I have been working on this piece for a while. I enjoy observing people and looking for the liberating truth behind the lies present upfront. I have an excellent opportunity to observe my clients and confirm the truth as we work along with the "Breakthrough to happiness" program. The most fascinating, that most of these lies were also part of my life. Attending a 3-day silence meditation course 2 weeks ago helped me also to reflect on the truth within. Reflect on how I used to cover it all up. Then I put the pieces together and completed this article. 

 

Have thought about the following?

How many of us bow our heads to others because we are afraid to say the truth. We are afraid to say what we want?

The reason is, that we have never been allowed to have a voice. It was easier to give up our wishes than to listen to the rejecting and yelling criticism from the other person. We feel an invisible power, pressure, and force on us, which immediately disables us, we freeze, and go numb once we are ordered against our wish. Then comes the silent resentment, that eats us up alive inside.

Do you remember your childhood? 

Can you recall, your decision, when you transferred your power to others? When you give them the power, to overpower you? 

Then you grew up and as an adult, you continued to render your power to others? Living a life of inferiority is the cover or the justification for becoming dependent on your weaknesses, so you can continue to suffer and exists as a living dead day by day. This inferiority is also a great excuse for running into a numbness caused by your dependencies on drugs and alcohol. Can you see how easy it is to blame others for your low mood and physical lethargy? It makes much more sense to lazying around as there you can't do anything wrong! 

Isn’t it easier to sit back in lukewarm water, with a foggy brain and numb body, than to shake yourself up and feel the truth within you? Then stand up, make a move and take a step. It is a whole lot easier to sit in stagnation, than going out for a walk or a run? Isn't it easier to continue lying to yourself than to take the direction of your fears? To step into the unknown, where your fears keep you away from?

 

If you have never been allowed to live by the truth within, you have developed a fear of truth. 

You are not weak at all! 

You are afraid of the truth. 

You are afraid of your true feeling, hence afraid of yourself. Furthermore, you can’t even imagine a life without your fears, especially the fear of yourself. 
 

Let me be a bit more specific about the fears what I am talking about:

Have you ever looked behind a lie? Have you seen the human behind that lie? Have you seen this person’s fear behind what he does or says? 

Have you ever seen how much he or she is afraid of taking responsibility? So they rather say something to put the responsibility on to others?

Have you seen what lay behind weakness in character? Have you seen the signs of low self-worth being the, and this is why he reason why she can’t stand up for him or herself? 

Have you seen how a person can’t say no? 

Have you also seen why he or she can’t do that? Can you understand now why do they run into numbness and dependencies, so they unload the pressure they feel to say yes? And all is that against their will. 

Have you seen that someone creates a lie, so you live him or her alone with your constant bragging on them?

Have you seen those who create a lie and use it manipulation to get what they want? Simply because they feel undeserving to ask straight out.

Have you seen the fear of losing freedom or control behind a lie? Have you seen the unworthiness behind a lie as this person is unable to answer a request or ask something kindly? Because all that he or she does has to come from his or her decision, and control. He or she can't ask, as they can only order and demand to feel in control. 

Have you seen a person lying due to the fear of trust? He or she is terrified as they feel unworthy to deliver. They are afraid of being trusted, as for them it means they have to fulfill an expectation. 

 

Have seen the fear of the truth behind a lie, where the other person promises to do something because he or she is afraid of the other person’s anger? 

He or she is exactly the thing to get something that they needed from you? And they know exactly that they won’t do what they promised. They count on your forgiveness or talking you out holding responsibilities on them. And moreover, they will turn around and blame you for what they haven't done.

 

Have you seen how much you lie to yourself because you are so afraid of yourself?

Have you seen how you can keep yourself in an illusion about others and yourself? The illusion, that you have to be stronger to carry the load because you are so afraid to put that load down. Because you believe that you deserve the pain that comes from carrying that load.

 

Have you seen, how lying to yourself justifies your constant resentment, self-blame, your bitter behavior which slowly and silently eats your health up? Have you seen how these fears keep you find pleasure in eating and eating more and more? 

 

Are you sure, this is what you want? 

Are you sure you don’t want to experience the wonders and miracles what the truth can bring in your life? Are you sure you give up on letting the truth clean your mind out so you experience inner peace, tranquility, self-worth, and happiness? Are you sure you don't want to see how the truth can enrich your life beyond anything that money can buy?

 

What if your happiness is locked in your fears? And you only have to open your fears. And what if it is much easier to open your fears than your fears telling you to. What if the truth can make your dreams and show you your calling in life? 

What if you were born to live your life Alive? And live a meaningful and happy life?

Did you know?

 You are not alone in being afraid of yourself. 

There are billions of people who are afraid of the truth within themselves. 

If you don’t believe this, I understand. Just know also know the reason for your belief. You are afraid of what I might about you. So I am telling you, I say nothing. So just for once, take your fear aside and send me a little message. Despite your fears be brave to talk to me so I can show you how incredible and amazing you are because you are Alive! Let us gift you this time and experience.. Enjoy a tea with dr Zsu. The message here for a time. Or email drzsu@drzsu.com